It can be difficult to find a partner if you are gay, bi, lesbian or transsexual.
You can never be sure who is gay, in most cases.
Some people think the way a person acts is a dead giveaway, unfortunately I can tell you this is definitely not the case.
From my personal experience you have to watch them and ask suggestive questions that other gay people would click on to. However if they aren't that bright you simply have to ask them.
Now if you get it wrong and they are straight.. well I am very sorry.
From my experience however they will be edgy for a while and avoid being too close and then after awhile they realize that you aren't going to jump them and you become closer because you shared something special with them.
The only way I found people is through suggestion and referral as I am a closet gay at this stage. If you are an open gay it makes life a little easier as all the closet gays know you are there.
However when you are thinking about getting into a relationship please remember it is different than heterosexual relationships because there are two males or females. You will have to learn how to hang out with, live with and love that person.
It will be a learning curve but I am sure it will pay off.
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